Friday, March 11, 2011

Menopause




Menopause is not a "disease" that needs to be treated. I know there are a lot of downfalls while enduring the experience, however it does not define the woman.


Many women seem to feel like the exaggerated image to the left. They feel as though going through menopause makes them frumpy, unsexy, and old. This should not be the case. Women have been the caretakers and the center of family for many centuries. It is not right for them to feel abandoned and tossed to the side after they start to endure menopause. Some women find their purpose in bearing and raising children. Keeping that in mind, losing the ability to bear children might be a particularly painful experience. However, we need to change the way we view elderly women and their journey through menopause.  We need to shift the focus from the fact that they cannot bring anymore children into the world to the fact that this can be a time for them to be free and maybe even a little bit selfish. A woman can spend her whole time raising children and taking care of a husband, but not have time for herself. I think we can change this negative view and turn it into positive experience. This time in a woman's life should be focused on reaching goals and doing the things she has always wanted in life. Maybe this is a time to travel and not worry about whether she'll be on her period and whether she should go swimming or not! I believe women should be cherished for the amazing sacrifices and the enduring love they emit through their life, not for what their body can or cannot do anymore.

3 comments:

  1. Dear Jessica,

    You have a very creative and informative blog about menopause. With many options to help alleviate menopausal symptoms, I agree women should live the latter years of their life focusing on what they want to accomplish during that time. Also, women can help change the negative views of menopause by living an active productive life well into their senior years.

    Best regards,
    Gwen Pryor-McKinnies

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  2. Dear Jessica,
    You made really good points with how menopause should not get women down. Women should not give up on how they feel about themselves even at their older ages. My aunt went though menopause by herself because her husband died about 3 years ago and she has a lot of confidence and she lives her life by traveling and is filled with religion. So I'm glad I read your post because is was very informative and creative.

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  3. Jessica,

    I love the pictures you put in your blog. I also like the idea you have about encouraging the change and appreciating the changes our bodies go through.

    Jacqueline

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